SELF-HARM

What is it: the act of causing bodily harm to one’s own body, by cutting, burning, stabbing, picking, and otherwise mutilating the body.

Facts:

  • Not talked about in Asian culture, because of the taboos associated with mental health issues, and also perhaps because it is not so prevalent in Asia.
  • Not a cry for help, mostly done in private and carefully covered up.
  • It is important to know about self-harm, why youths self harm and how to spot it.

Why self-harm?

  • As a coping mechanism mainly
  • Release of stress
  • Outlet for venting
  • Brings temporary relief and control
  • Often prevents other things — such as suicide or substance abuse
  • Occasionally a precursor to suicide
  • Often a sign of depression/emotional suicide

Kinds of self harm:

  • Cutting (using knife or razor or other sharp implement)
  • Carving
  • Scratching
  • Branding
  • Picking skin or hair
  • Excessive tattooing
  • Excessive body piercing
  • Hitting

How to spot it:

  • Cuts, marks and bruises on the wrists or arms (common areas for self-harm)
  • Wearing long skirts, trousers (to cover marks)
  • Wearing long sleeved tops even in hot weather (to cover marks)
  • Carrying around a sharp implement — penknife, for example

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